Which lessons do you need?

1. 1. When something goes wrong, I take a long time to get back up.

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2. 2. A setback can make me want to quit altogether.

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3. 3. I rush decisions because waiting feels like losing.

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4. 4. I find it hard to rest, even after a big win.

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5. 5. I rarely stop to think about who made my life easier.

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6. 6. I mostly notice what is missing, not what I was given.

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7. 7. I tend to give only when I know I will get something back.

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8. 8. I keep a quiet score of who owes me what.

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9. 9. I prefer doing things alone because people slow me down.

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10. 10. I find it hard to ask for help or trust a partner.

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11. 11. Small things at work or home can upset my whole day.

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12. 12. I hold on to things (grudges, roles, stuff) long after they stop serving me.

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13. 13. I keep doing things the old way even when results are poor.

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14. 14. I judge people quickly from the little I see of them.

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15. 15. I start many things but rarely finish them with care.

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16. 16. I build for today and do not think about what could go wrong later.

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17. 17. I avoid standing up for someone when it might cost me.

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18. 18. I find it hard to be gentle when I have power over someone.

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1 = not me 5 = very me